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  • Dream inspired note

    Most people that are at the center of some sort of spiritual movement or religion (i.e Jesus Christ or the Bhuddha) teach the same lessons. Have compassion for one another. Treat others as one. But for some reason the powers that be (i.e. the government, media, influencers(which have increased the spread), the need to work to survive, etc. ) try to divide and distract us from those messages. If we all just treated each other as if we were all a family, there truly could be a heaven on earth.

    But there’s a lot of different forces that exist that distract the everyday conciousness from remembering these lessons. Like with our culture’s focus on future tech, having the latest and the greatest, doing everything on your own–it’s not by the way, having help is OKAY–and a weirdly absent interest in our own shared pasts. Like humanity has existed for thousands of years, isn’t anyone else interested in what those people had learned? yet things like this which would be considered as a humanity have been under attack for years, **think classroom curriculum, general cultural curiosity, it seems like American society has keep us limited to the most recent human events, where as in countries that have a more continuous shared cultural history , most of media that is created incorporate ideaologies/events that are a shared memory. To know your past is to learn the knowledge others had paved a way towards.

    That was the best thing about America. It used to take the best part or best idea from the different people that lived here (either born here or immigrated). There was a time we were on the right path to getting better (we weren’ perfect, but it was something to work with) but then something happened (REAGAN), and we began moving in the wrong direction. To more division among how different classes of people (i.e. male/female, rich, poor, immigrant, second generation, by race, by ability) are treated. If a person calls America home they should be treated with dignity and respect. We should act as a family and our quality of life would be so much better. I would just urge people to look at each other like we are all the same because we are. We are all just humans living on earth at the same time, in the same overall circumstances. Can’t we just agree to change it for the better on some basics like housing, food, healthcare, and a living wage? Is that such a bad idea? This is a radical idea? By the way, certain groups have weaponized the word radical, but all it means is  very different from the usual or traditional . But different doesn’t mean bad. It’s just different.

    It’s okay to be different. Or at least that was how I was raised. If you weren’t lucky enough to experience a family like that, just know you have a sister out there who is okay with you being different. 🙂

  • Had a crazy dream (TLDR:They are not in a better place, just on a better path).

    OMG, so I get really vivid dreams sometimes, where I feel like I am awake in the dream. Last time I had a dream like that was in 2022, about my mom and meeting her again but older and being told by some security type guard (wasn’t scary, just by the book) I wasn’t supposed to be there, and my mom told the him really proudly “that’s my daughter! She found me.”

    But in this dream I was just my presence if that makes sense and I was watching like an editing board of four scenes. In each screen I was watching my consciousness going through different scenarios, but it was okay if it made a mistake because it would just get another chance to have a better situation/station next time. Sometimes it would run into consciousness that it had met before and had run into, and they would help each other once they’ve both realized the situation. So it’s okay if you are still on the path you’ll meet them again, until it’s time both of you have left this path. And once you’ve realized the situation, it’s kind of like hacking your life.

    IDK it just left me really happy and relieved. I just had to write it down so I don’t forget. Because it’s easy to forget our dreams.

  • How to Opt out of Meta AI Generative training:

    OMG. Facebook/Meta is using anyone who has used a Meta Product’s information to train their generative AI models. Opt out here:https://www.facebook.com/help/contact/1266025207620918

    I made a step by step guide.

    Proof: https://www.facebook.com/privacy/genai

    Please take a small piece of your day out to opt out of this. This is an absolutely insane type of privacy violation. What if you had a stalker who was obsessed with you so you block him on everything? But he is able to use Meta’s AI to create images of you? and him?. This is so crazy!!.


    You have to start here.


    https://www.facebook.com/privacy/genai

    After clicking that link it brings you here. Click on the highlighted portion below:

    That will then take you to this page:

    Then, click the checkbox:


    I think it’s crazy that they want you support your case as to why they can’t use your info to train AI. LOL How do we get this to be a huge class action lawsuit?

    OMG. After you hit send, it has to send a code to your email!

    FINALLY!!!


  • Making time to be grateful

    With all the craziness in the modern world, it is hard to sit and just be grateful with what IS going great in life.

    I was dropping my son off at preschool today and as I was walking to my car I just had to stop and be grateful for everything that is in my life right now that is good.

    1. I have a flexible job that allows me to do drop off for my son.
    2. I have a handsome and healthy little boy.
    3. I love my current car and it has no issues. I am almost done paying it off.
    4. My husband is handsome.
    5. My dad is healthy and strong.

    Those are things to be grateful for at anytime, but especially now when the news is just filled with a horror show. Another school shooting, more trade wars, violations of human/civil rights. It’s a crazy time to be a first time adult.

    I need to be mindful of the things that are going right and just tweak my mindset. 🙂

  • When the money’s dirty, it stinks

    In a bombshell letter to Attorney General Pam Bondi, the chair of the Senate Finance Committee –Senator Ron Wydendetails the results of his team’s extensive 3-year investigation into Jeffery Epstein.

    A 3-Year Long Senate Finance Commitee led by chair Sen. Ron Wyden, D. Ore, found 4,725 wire transfers adding up to $1.08 BILLION flowing in and out of just ONE of Epstein’s bank accounts. Epstein used several now sanctioned Russian banks for hundreds of millions of dollars in wire transfers.

    He recommends 7 lines of inquisition the DOJ could take. One of which was the below which really caught my attention. I didn’t even think about the financial trail that an operation such as Epstein’s would have entailed, and who could be aware of all the shady dealings going on in the world every single day. BANKS.

    Wyden recommends the DOJ to:

    Conduct depositions with bankers responsible for overseeing large accounts transacting with Jeffrey Epstein, particularly relationship managers and their supervisors. Epstein’s accounts routinely had hundreds of millions of dollars in them. Epstein also received large inflows of cash from some of the wealthiest men in America, typically in large installments in the tens of millions of dollars. Ultra-high net worth persons ($30 million and up) benefit from white glove treatment from private bankers who are compensated on a percentage of the value of the accounts they manage. These bankers are also required to conduct “know your customer” reviews on their clients and conduct enhanced due diligence of large wire transfers. Accordingly, DOJ must immediately conduct transcribed interviews with bankers overseeing Epstein’s accounts as well as the wealthy businessmen who helped finance his operations.

  • My Therapist Claude

    I don’t know if I’m the only one to do this, but sometimes when I am anxious about something. I do a check with Claude to see if I am just being paranoid. I am wary about using AI too much, because I am concerned about the environmental cost–AI datacenters do so much damage to the area in which they are located, some residents have very poor water pressure or NO WATER at all, do to these resources being diverted to cool machines, please do some research into this–however, I am guilty of using AI for purely personal reasons. I don’t know if anyone else has been following the f*ckery going on in Texas. They are attempting to redraw district maps to oust democratically ELECTED representatives. It’s crazy. Look into. Anways, that along with everything else going on. I had a convo with Claude this morning, and basically yeah. Even AI can see what is going on.




    What can we do as the American People to get out of this Dystopian Timeline? I’m so sick of paying taxes on EVERYTHING–income tax, sales tax, property taxes, gift taxes, registration tax–and we get NOTHING IN RETURN. What is the point of functioning in a society if we get nothing? We just fund the government to create laws to control us and pay for enforcement agencies–ICE, the police, etc–to control and brutalize us? I’m sure this isn’t the America any of us want.

  • FRIDAY

    Is there any other day of the week more beloved to the working man than Friday? Or at least the working man who works M-F. Of which I am lucky to be in that cohort. Oh, to welcome the brief respite from modern wage slavery. A small taste of freedom, is better than none at all. Though, I suspect there are better ways of living together as a society if world rankings on individual happiness are to be trusted.

    Anyways, for now I’ll just enjoy this window of humanity.

  • Finding out I was pregnant…

    I had never really thought about kids when I was younger. I was too busy just trying to survive my childhood. LOL. But I really didn’t care one way or the other. I never gave it too much thought or made it a priority. It was just a if it happens it happens. Obviously if it did happen I was planning on it being after I was financially stable and in a stable relationship.

    All that to say when I saw that positive dollar tree pregnancy test–after a weeklong bought with what I had thought was food poisoning–I was more in shock than anything else. I really shouldn’t have been that shocked. We were using pulling out as a contraceptive. STUPID! IDK why I didn’t think it was more stupid back then, but like we had been doing that for two years before and hadn’t gotten pregnant? Anyways at this point I’m like 31, pretty good financially, in a semi-healthy relationship–it’s more healthy now :)–so it’s not the worst thing in the world. I had already been thinking about marrying my husband anyways (more on that another day); so I told him and we made the decision together. We obvs decided to keep it, and now I have a tiny dictator in my home.

    It was just funny though because leading up to that, we had gone to this Pho restaurant with my husband’s family at a place our BiL and SiL were raving about. They had been going there for years and had a relationship with the owners. It was weird, they would go behind the counter for stuff?! Anyways, the food was good, but the next day I was throwing up. I asked my then BF at the time if he felt weird, and of course when I feel ill he feels deathly ill. LOL But the next day I was still throwing up and couldn’t keep anything down. This was serious enough for my now Husband to notice. I told him I was okay it was probably just that damn restaurant. So we were making fun of the restaurant the rest of the week. However, when I didn’t get my period that weekend, I was like OH NO.

    I used to keep a stack of pregnancy tests from the dollar tree at home just in case. I think everyone who is at risk of pregnancy should have a stash. The dollar tree ones are just as accurate as the more high end brands. IDK why they are allowed to do stuff like that. Make us pay more for things that do the same thing. Anyways, I digress, I took it and low and behold two lines appeared. I told Napoli (hubby), and he thought I was playing at first. But no, there it was. Clear as day. We had a choice to make. We discussed our current financial path, and what would change, were we ready? We made the decision that we were. So here we are now 3 years later, and I’m picking sh*t off the floor every other day because we are potty training. LOL I think we made a good choice. I’m just glad we had a chance to choose what was best for us in that moment. One of the perks of living in California.

  • Chow Chows

    When I was in my last year of college, I had gotten a black pug named Frank. I loved Frank so much. I had worked triple shifts to afford him. lol. He was with me for 2 years but then I joined the Navy. While I was on deployment he ran away. 😦

    A few months later I started dating this weird Russian guy. IDK I was just like lonely in a new town and looking for companionship. He was kind of weird, he had gone to jail before for counterfeiting, and he liked going to raves. He was really nice though. We had some good times, but he was just kind of unstable. Anyways, he had gotten me a replacement Frank. I liked the new frank, but he didn’t have like a completely back coat, he looked faded. I don’t know if that makes sense. There’s a stray cat who goes into our yard who is grey but has random patches of this weird orange color. It looks like she was bleached. That’s kind of how new Frank was.

    We wound up breaking up after a few months because he was just like too weird for me. Like I’m weird, but I’m stable and always gainfully employed, but he was just weird. I was also resentful because he came from this great family, his mom was SO NICE! She was a psychiatrist, taught herself how to paint, and was teaching herself French at the time. I was so jealous. I would think about where would I have been, if I had that kind of support from the get go, compared to what I had to go through. IDK but that’s also part of the reason we broke up. I just couldn’t relate with him well.

    Anyways, he wound up taking Frank back with him when we broke up. 😦 Secretly I was kind of okay with it because new Frank wasn’t like old Frank. He later drowned in my ex’s mom’s pool. 😦

    For my birthday that year my brother decided to get me a new puppy. We had went to a puppy store in National City. They had such dogs! There was this super cute white chow chow puppy named Elsa. I knew she was the one. When we inquired as to the price–THREE THOUSAND DOLLARS–we noped right out of there. They were talking about financing a dog. FINANCING?! Like financing for a car, but for a dog!! That’s too crazy. We jumped on craigslist and found a breeder selling Chow Chows for 300 a pup in LA.

    We went to see the puppies and Henry was the first one to come up to me. I had always seen my self as a boy dog mom, and Henry is a girl, but I had my heart set on the name Henry. Her name also serves as a litmus test for people I meet. If they don’t get how words are just sounds we attach meanings to and aren’t intrinsic to the physical material that makes up a person or thing, then we probably won’t get along. Alot of people say, “Oh, you are confusing her”, “What if she becomes gay?” It’s like first of all that makes no sense becuase that’s not how any of that works, and also BECAUSE SHE IS A DOG. Dogs don’t know English, they just know what we teach them. Words don’t have bearing on a person/animal’s sexuality, as that is just something they are born as.

    So, that’s another reason why I enjoy having Henry around. Not just for her beautiful face, but her beautiful soul.

  • Tuesday

    IDK why, but Tuesdays always go pretty fast for me. Probably because I have most of my meetings on Tuesdays. Tuesdays don’t really have anything going on other than Taco Tuesday I guess, but not everybody likes tacos?

    I have to remember to put my car in on Tuesdays because the street sweepers come by our street every other Wednesday. I never remember which Wednesday they are supposed to come so I just put my car in every Tuesday just to be sure. I could probably figure out what days the Street Sweeper will be by, but I’m too busy disassociating on Tuesdays. LOL